2 months ago
I see a fair few couples build up debts on each other, ''I did X for you so now you owe me Y'' or ''I let (let?) him go to X so he has to do to Y now". Whilst this may often just be playful compromise - of which a relationship needs - I feel this constant exchange can often play out more like manipulative competition. As though you're trying to check-mate each other. I've always hated this.
You're on the same team, stop trying to monetize each other's time, passions and love. At the very least, reset the slate clean as often as you can.
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