9 minutes ago
I saw this and strongly disagreed. Whoever created this, has basically described a door mat. I know this because this was me up until Monday 15th April.
If you do this for a man/woman, you are just letting them take advantage of you. I've sat and waited for hours for Him. He would give me a time but 90% of the time always be late, I made the mistake of introducing Him to my family, as it just opened the door to Him taking the piss. Oh and the time He met my family, turns out He was already religiously married to someone else which I came to find out later. As much as I wanted to speak to him, He would only talk when He wanted to or when He needed something. I stuck by His side when He asked me to, He said all the right things but still never corrected His wrongs, yet I found myself still being manipulated by Him and His convincing words.
I spoke the truth but He always denied it. Despite the proof I had/have, no one actually knew anything about the truth. A real man wouldn't take the piss like this. A real man wouldn't continue to disrespect a woman if she meant the world to Him. I've spent 2 and a half years listening to "it's you I want", "be patient our time will come". But I accepted that time will NEVER come, because He never valued me.
I'd known Him over 15yrs, I wish we had never crossed the friend zone, because I was always His biggest supporter. But He put me beneath everything when we were together. Yet claiming I was His soulmate.
Doesnt matter how much you do for someone, if there is no loyalty or respect or love, they will always stab you in the back. How am I supposed to know who He really is when He doesnt even know Himself. I tried to save Him from His story He told me. But it was lies.
I was never a bad person and always gave my all. He wasted a good woman. He denied the truth and will continue to do so. But this was all a blessing in disguise.
My family came together to support me, through what is currently a very rough chapter, but also supporting me through what my future is about to be. He exposed what was meant to be between US and only US. He thought it would break my family and everyone around me. But we came together